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Open Question: How to handle a girl hitting up on my bf?
Last weekend I went to a bar with my boyfriend and a bartender was totally hitting on him. She came over our table all the time and always talked to me boyfriend, ignoring me. She even came over twice giving him free shots saying there were from her. When we payed our check she told him (totally ignoring me) that she hopes he comes over tomorrow and that she will be there all day.
I didn't react to this situation at all. I trust my boyfriend. Besides, I don't think he even noticed that she was flirting.
How should I handle these situations in the future. I don't want to act all jealous, since I trust him but on the other hand, I think she was kind of mean hitting up on my bf in front of me.
Open Question: How to handle girls like that?
Last weekend I went to a bar with my boyfriend and a bartender was totally hitting on him. She came over our table all the time and always talked to me boyfriend, ignoring me. She even came over twice giving him free shots saying there were from her. When we payed our check she told him (totally ignoring me) that she hopes he comes over tomorrow and that she will be there all day.
I didn't react to this situation at all. I trust my boyfriend.
How should I handle these situations in the future. I don't want to act all jealous, since I trust him but on the other hand, I think she was kind of mean hitting up on my bf in front of me.
Open Question: university and an illness?
ok I am in my first year of grad school and have never really got sick to the point that it affected my school work before. However for the last 3 months I have been feeling very tired, have a fever for no reason and just feel generally ill. Also i have been getting the flu more often than normal. iT was starting to affect my school work so I went to the doctor who diagnosed me with mono. Anyway one day I had an essay/presention due and was sick with the stomach flu. So my prof posponed the due date to the next week but something went wrong with the email he sent telling me this and I found out later that I never got it so I didnt know. So he postponed the due date for the next week again but I got the stomach flu that day as well so I couldnt present. The secomd time I got a doctors note because i thought it might be suspicious getting the flu one week appart. Thats when I was diagnosed with mono. I explained this to my prof who said to just hand in the essay portion and forget the presentation part and that I would not loose any marks for not presenting. Then he said that now that I am getting better he expects me to attend all future classes and participate in class discussions and not make any convoluted excuses. So even though I have written proof of my illness, does it sound like my prof doesnt believe me? hes one of those ppl of whom it is hard to tell if they are joking or not. He knows im a good student I got an A in a previous class I took for him. I explained that mono messes with your imune system and thats why I got the stomach flu those two times. I also explained that now that I am feeling better I will be more committed to being the good student that I am. wtf?
I am just worried about my reputation as a student. I think I did everything that I could to keep up
Open Question: Just dont know what to do--follow my heart, or keep trying to move on?? He's my Former teacher...?
Ok...I had this teacher, and everything was normal between us at first but he taught me last year(my Senior year),and as the year went on my feelings changed for him and I am pretty sure his changed toward me too. He told me one day, that he loved me and that I will always have a special place in his heart. Or he would be like...I love you, I just want you to know that. I am gonna be 19 and he is gonna be 25. He told me at the end of the year, that he did like me, and hoped that my future husband ( how strange is that...iam not getting married any time soon?), realizes how lucky he really is.
I caught up with him one day during school this year..I had to pick up something at school.. and he had this pic. of us that I gave him at the end of the year, from Graduation, framed in his office. The picture kinda shocked me...I was like...huh? Thing was, last year, we didnt really get along, I mean we bumped heads about everything! But..it was like we both kind of grew on each-other. We sort of brought out the best in one another.
He would make these little remarks like, once I saw him in the hallway and it was crowded and he came out of one of the classes and told this kid, "hey you need to fix yourself up, and look decent... because there is a beautiful girl in the hallway. He told me, " I used you in my First day of school speech that I gave all my classes. I just thought you should know, I was talking about you to all my classes the first day of school. Actually..I bring you up a lot."
I even had ppl who work in the school that would tell me, " oh, well...lucky for you he likes you, cause he does he likes you', or ' ohh you know he loves you', stuff like that. It was kind of like...everyone saw "something", except for me.
We talked alittle via E-mail for abit and we were talking about college and I was doing well and stuff..and he said "I am so proud of you, and not just academically...but I am really proud of the woman your becoming. I want you to know... Every time I look at the photo of you and I from graduation, here in the office...it just makes me smile".
What do I do here?? We are friends and that's fine..but part of me does feel like...I really do like him, I enjoy spending time with him, but the other part of me thinks...I don't wanna loose him as a friend if things dont work out..and What if these feelings are not even real and Iam reading him wrong....I could definitely use some advice!
Open Question: Is my college essay any good? ?
Ok So here is my college essay it's just a rough draft idea paper I have had so many thing happen in my life and i didnt want to write about everything so i basically just fouced on my mom and my education...
It's engrossing to hear about a foolish teen, it's depressing to cry about a lost loved one, it's funny to think about the crazy memories of the past, and yet they are parts of everyone's life. We all start off in life ignorant of why things happen unsure about decisions we make, and questioning about the world around us.
The experiences that we all go through teach us a little more about ourselves everyday. To look back at my own past and to write of my own present situations is bittersweet, and to dream of the future is something I need to do, that we all need to do, to learn more about ourselves. My story is unique, for I am a human being with memories and emotions that add to the collective remembrances of my life. I had a very unique and unusual education. I was home schooled first but as I like to called it unschooled. The usual questions people would often ask were "Do you get to wake up when ever you want?"
"How does that work, who teaches you?" "So you follow the same curriculum as me?" Truth was no one really taught me, I didn't follow a curriculum and I woke up usually by 12pm. But how could I tell someone that? How could I possibly explain how I couldn't even spell my middle name at the age of nine? So I lied. I lied, my brothers lied, and my sister lied. Lied for our parents and lied for ourselves. Some days my mother would wake us up somewhat early and sit us down to learn something, but it never lasted long, an hour at most. But I would still be lying if I told you I didn't learn anything. I learned about life, tragedy, love and so much more, but little did I know that I would learn so much more in the up coming years about life and about myself. In 2006 on July 24h my mother died, and along with her a piece of me did too. My mother taught me many things, maybe not how to write a proper sentence or graph a math problem but she taught me something much greater then that. She taught me how to love and find joy in the simple things in life. I wouldn’t change a thing about my childhood. I used to tell myself when I was a little girl and my father used to come home drunk that everything happened for a reason. When I use to see my friends buy back to school clothes in the fall I would whisper everything happens for a reason, when my grandmother died and soon after my aunt, I said, everything happens for a reason. When my mother passed just two years ago I cried and asked God what could be the reason. Needles to say God didn’t come down from haven and tell me what the reasons for all the things that had happened in my life. When I was sixteen just two years ago I made had to make a decision. I could lay there and die, or do something with my life. Needless to say I chose to do something with my life. To continue my education no matter what it took. Since then I have done so and am further more doing so while writing this essay for college. My struggle has been long and hard but for the memory of my mother and for myself I humbly and greatly honored and ready for anymore challenges and gifts life and God will send, and I am now confided in myself that I can overcome and do anything, and I strongly believe you can do anything you set your mind to.
It's engrossing to hear about a foolish teen, it's depressing to cry about a lost loved one, it's funny to think about the crazy memories of the past, and yet they are parts of everyone's life. We all start off in life ignorant of why things happen unsure about decisions we make, and questioning about the world around. I make my own future.
And yes I will be going to a teacher for proof reading.
Open Question: Hai too all, am Prakash. S DOB: 22/12/1981 TOB: 07:43 PM (19:43) POB : Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu,?
Could U plz tell me my future. And an information that all the planets are in between Ragu & Ketu (Kalsarpadosha) is it good or not... plz tell me...do i get Govt. Job...
Open Question: A case of it's not you it's me?
So I've been seeing her for 2 months. 2 nights ago, we had dinner at an amazing restaurant. She said everything was just perfect...then we went out for coffee later, and that's when I asked what she thought about the future.
She told me that if she was honest with herself, there is no future. We talked for an hour about it, and I couldn't change her mind, she said I was being stubborn. She told me that she has so much fun when she's with me, that I treat her how she should be treated, she enjoys my company, and who I am, and that she was attracted to me, but that it's not everything. I wasn't the race and religion as she is, and that's it.
I told her to tell me that I was a jerk, that I treated her badly, or that she just didn't care, because that I could deal with, I could put it on me. She wouldn't, and just kepted on telling me it's only because I wasn't the same race and religion as she is.
I keep playing it back in my head, and I don't know what I did wrong...why did this happen? I always thought that if two people care about each other it's enough....what happened...?
Open Question: What Should I do in this situation?
I found out that my wife of almost 6 years has been having an affair for 7 months! I knew something was wrong for a while until I found some evidence that made it known! A week after I decided I could not take it with all her lies I kicked her out of my house, but then reconciled and let her back in 2 weeks later! The relationship we have now is totally different and I can hardly take what happened out of my head! I just recently found some paperwork today that she had or is planning to have an abortion!!!! She does not know that I know this! She has told me numerous times that she wants to make the marriage work, but she has not changed anything since she has been back in the house! She acts like none of this happened and plans future events like everything is ok...I also know she still contacts the other guy she was with even after she stated that she broke it off and had no communication with him anymore!
Open Question: Should I cuss him out or try not to go down to his level and get mad like he wants? If so what should I say?
BF now EX cheated on me at the Homecoming dance with his "date" he "just met" that I knew about and didn't mind at the time (being the nice and relaxed gf) He knew I was there we spoke & I shook her hand. He says that he doesn't like dirty dancing. I see them grinding and she was sitting on his lap in the shortest dress (turquoise matching him which is his favorite color) feeding him chips and kissing him in the mouth while Im on the floor in the dark in my dress heartbroken. I dumped him the next day.
I believe that going on for a long time but I couldn't see it because I was in love w/him & would have done almost anything to make him happy and he knew that.
NO apology after a month and counting. Two girls ask him what happened between you guys and he says he doesnt want to talk about it. WTF!! ( I guess he couldn't think of an lie)Yesterday he asks if I'm still mad at him and I look at him and dont say a word and look away. Today a girl asked himwhy he cheated. HIS EXCUSE is that he broke up with me 3 weeks b4 the dance. True.Which hurt me. So he did it.MY COMEBACK What he didn't tell them is how he was with her while we were 2gther, how the same day we broke up later he told me he missed me and wanted me, and how we both planned 2 work on our relationship he planned 4 our future together.
He tells his track mate at school while I'm standing there playing around w/ him that he has a date 4 him that he was going 2 "hook him up" (smiling)later I find the guy sitting next 2 him at the dance with the twin sitting on his lap. YES they're twins. He hooked him up with his other chicks sister. The next day after he hooks them up he breaks up w/ me for lack of feeling. When his feeling was taken away because of the other girl.
Sorry for the length. I need to vent. That's just the stuff that was the last straw. Not including throwing water in my face to see me angry.
Open Question: VENTING: AM I WRONG??? IS my now EX BF SOMEWHAT RIGHT FOR CHEATING ON ME?? 10 points?
There were a lot of problems that I had w/ my bf but never got angry at him I always tried to keep my class (which bothered him). He even carries snakes in his pocket is considered weird and annoying. 1 time he threw a cap of water in my face while we were together trying 2 c me mad. He puts other girls ahead of me walks them places & buys them things not me, etc. I gave him massages when he was sore and emotional support whenever he felt bad.He wasn't attractive and people always wonder why I went out w/ him & how he was damn lucky & messed it up.I was just sm1 2 show 2 his parents and friends I guess.
Problem-He cheated on me at the Homecoming dance with his "date" he "just met." They were matching his fav color when I told him I was wearing red. She was sitting on his lap grinding in the shortest dress feeding him chips and kissing him in the mouth and dirty dancing which he "doesnt like" & eve1 saw it. While im sitting on the floor in the dark heartbroken.I even talked 2 him and shook her hand.
He canceled our date 4 the movies saying that he had to go to a football game his bro was working at. He later finds a date & asks her. I didnt expect him to not go because of me not so I TRUSTED him.
He lies the 1st month of our rel. I'm at summer school later than usual and he usually txt me that he is in the area of school. No. I hear him playing outside w/ a girl late and walking w/ her.I finally go outside & he tells me that he was playing w/ his brother. It was a girl because I saw her she is the same girl at the dance!
Some1 asks what happened 2 us he says he doesn't want 2 talk about it, Good bye. Then he thinks of a way to blame me and make me look like im overreacting.
HIS EXCUSE(just 2day)- A girl asked him why he cheated. He says that he broke up w/ me 3 weeks b4 the dance.True.Which hurt. So that justified him to do that.
MY COMEBACK What he didn't tell them is how he was with her while we were 2gther, how the same day we brokeup later he told me he missed me and wanted me, and how we both planned 2 work on our relationship he planned 4 our future together.
Problem - He tells his track mate at school that he has a date 4 him that he was going 2 "hook him up" later I find the guys sitting next 2 him at the dance with the twin sitting on his lap. YES they're twins. He hooked him up with his other chicks sister. The next day he breaks up w/ me. Still no apology after a month. He asked yesterday if I'm still mad at him. I ignore him and try 2 avoid him but he walks in front of me on purpose 2 keep me from forgetting him. He knew how to avoid me when we were together.
Situation- He asked me to the dance and I told him that I had to see about my college write off at CSUN so no but I'll go to the game with you. He has her at the game I later find out. Two weeks b4 the dance I tell him that I asked my mom and I can go & I dont want to interrupt or scare the date so I went with my friend.
just venting sorry for the length
Open Question: What did you think of Madonna's Sticky and Sweet Tour?
I actually really wanted to review each song she performed, so here goes!
1. "Candy Shop"
- I think that this song obviously had to be performed since candy was her theme. I actually thought that this performance was fun and a little silly (in a good way). I think she could've also/ or instead performed candy perfume girl, which was amazing at her Drowned Tour.
2. "Beat Goes On"
-I am mixed on this. I like the performance, but wasn't amazed. But I'm happy she sang this song! Not bad!
3. "Human Nature"
-It was cool seeing Britney, But I dunno but Madonna should've perfromed Bedtime Story instead, bc she performs that song a lot better than this song!
4. "Vogue" (contains elements of "4 Minutes" and "Give It To Me")
-I think Vogue performance wise was good, but the whole mixing 4 minutes was NOT a good idea! IT made the song so not "vogue" and the costumes were kinda reallly out there!
5. "Die Another Day" (Remix) (Video Interlude)
-LOVE THIS SONG! the video wasn't bad either! the boxers on the stage were soo random though lol
6. "Into the Groove" (contains elements of "Toop Toop", "Jump", "Apache" and "Double Dutch Bus")
-I enjoyed this one! I loved the video in the background (those lil ppl were soo cute!) and seing her jump rope was kinda funny :P and her pole dancing, wow!
7. "Heartbeat"
-I loved how she started it, acting like she fainted and then got up! She didn't do too much with this song, but I liked it that way for this one!
8. "Borderline"
-Ehh it wasn't bad, but out of all the old songs she could've chose, why this one! I would rather of heard Angel, True Blue, or Burning Up!
9. "She's Not Me"
-Lmao I loved this performance! she let out her wild side and really was agressive-- which i loved!
10. "Music" (contains elements of "Put Your Hands Up 4 Detroit", with excerpts from "Last Night a DJ Saved My Life")
-Music is becoming really cliche for madonna, I wish it was MORE like Music Inferno... even that she should've sang Nobody Knows me, Impressive Instant, or atleast Don't Tell Me instead of this one!
11. "Rain" (Remix) (Video Interlude) (contains elements of "Here Comes the Rain Again")
-I loved this video! It was soooo relaxing! It was so refreshing!
12. "Devil Wouldn't Recognize You"
-BEST PERFORMANCE FROM THE CONCERT! it was just genius, beautiful, and really made me happy! she was not only serious throughout the song, but had a deep burning passion while she sang!
13. "Spanish Lesson"
-This was probably one of the song choices/performances which I did NOT like...... WHY this song! she REALLLLY should've chose DANCE 2NIGHT or Voices over this song! I mean seriously!
14. "Miles Away"
-Another amazing performance! the video was really cool (indian dancers!) and her singing was again beautiful!
15. "La Isla Bonita" (contains elements of "Lela Pala Tute")
-This was really fun to watch, but the song was okay... but the beat really kept me electrified!
16. "Doli Doli" (Dance Interlude)
-This was pretty cool seeing the dancers.........
17. "You Must Love Me"
-Why this song! I mean she sang well, but it really DID NOT FIT, but even that other songs like Frozen, Future Lovers, or even Paradise would have been soo much better!
18. "Get Stupid" (Video Interlude) (contains excerpts from "Beat Goes On", "Give It 2 Me", "4 Minutes" and "Voices")
-I liked this video!!!!! it was interesting.
19. "4 Minutes"
-with vogue already mixed with 4 minutes, it felt like this song was already heard. . . but this performance was pretty good!
20. "Like a Prayer" (contains elements of "Feels Like Home")
-Another favorite! at first I didn't understand y she chose this song, but now I take my words back! she did phenomenal and had a good video too along her singing! Loved it!
21. "Ray of Light"
-Favorite song of the world. She performed it pretty good, but the dancers were annoying! but the whole different beat worked!
22. "Hung Up"
-I liked this performance, but it really wasnt amazing sadly!
23. "Give It 2 Me"
-Good song, good ending! I liked it but it ended so quickly :./
*****Material Girl
She performed this as a request (after rejecting the 1st one!) and did a good job actually! She shouldve just performed this instead of Borderline!
so what did you think of her performance?
Open Question: Please help. Need help deciding if I should move back to my hometown?
I know I am the only person who can decide for myself, but I need some opinions, or examples of what you decided in your life. I'm currently 18 & have been living with my mom for 3 years, in a town 12 hours away from my hometown. I feel so out of place here. I haven't made a single friend, much less any real friends. The only family I have here is my mom. Back at home I have all my other family, aunts, uncles, cousins, best friends & so on.. I still go back up to my hometown every few weeks & I feel so much at home, somewhere I can imagine spending the rest of my life. I can't see myself in the future here.
The only thing that stops me is there is no other person in my life than I'm closer to than my mom. I can talk to her about anything & when I go up to visit my hometown, I miss her sooo much. I cant imagine living so far without her when I am older. I tried to get my mom to move closer up there, but she doesn't want to bc she says it's to much of a small town. She tells me I can if I want to, but she needs to live her life too.. I know that's true.
Ok. Do you think I should move to my hometown where I'll be happier & will just miss my mom, while the rest of my life is complete? I know it's probably obvious that I should just move up there, but have any of you have similar expierences & how did you deal with it?
Sorry if my spelling & wording is bad!
Open Question: I just dont know what to do--follow my heart, or keep trying to move on?? He's my Former teacher...?
Ok...I had this teacher, and everything was normal between us at first but he taught me last year(my Senior year),and as the year went on my feelings changed for him and I am pretty sure his changed toward me too. He told me one day, that he loved me and that I will always have a special place in his heart. Or he would be like...I love you, I just want you to know that. I am gonna be 19 and he is gonna be 25. He told me at the end of the year, that he did like me, and hoped that my future husband ( how strange is that...iam not getting married any time soon?), realizes how lucky he really is.
I caught up with him one day during school this year..I had to pick up something at school.. and he had this pic. of ...
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